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When Everyone But You Seems to Be Getting Attached
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“Did you hear… X and Y got together yesterday!”
“Huh? Since when were they together?”
I noticed lately that this sort of exchange has replaced the “Hello, how are you?” between my friends and me.

Love on the Way Home
Valentine’s Day can magnify our feelings of loneliness.
We think having a “significant other” in our lives is the ticket to easing the pangs of loneliness, but that isn’t true. We can be dating and married, and still feel lonely.

What Helped Me Navigate Singlehood in My Twenties
I was single for most of my twenties, which I didn’t really mind at first. But when our peers started to get married one by one, my “single” status began to stick out like a sore thumb.

Married—But I'm Still Lonely
Even though my husband was literally just a few feet away on the couch (clear proof that I wasn’t alone), it made little difference at that moment. I was longing for the kind of soul-nourishing intimacy that comes with female friendships—the willingness to listen and talk at length, the gentle tone, the comforting hug or touch on the shoulder, and most of all, hearing them say, “I know what you mean” or “Yeah, me too!”

How God Met Me Where I Was—Single and Feeling Left Behind
I have been longing for a partner for as long as I can remember. However, my plans of getting married young did not happen. And now that I’m in my 30s—and still single—there are days when I feel incredibly lonely.

One and Whole: How I Learned to Love Being Single
One evening, as an introductory question to our Bible study session, our happily married leader asked the singles in our group to share why we were still single.

To the One Who Feels Lonely
Do you ever imagine what it’s like, having people who care about you? Wouldn’t it just brighten up your day, knowing that there are people eagerly waiting to greet you when you get to school or work?
I wish that were the case for me too.

Is Loneliness a Sin?
I could understand what the children’s pastor was saying: anything that distracts us from God, causing us to doubt and seek comfort elsewhere, is sinful.
But is the feeling of loneliness sinful or just what we do with our loneliness? And if it’s not good for man or woman to be alone, is it a sin if he or she is?

4 Lies to Combat When You Feel Lonely
Loneliness can drag on over days and weeks, and easily lead to discouragement and dejection. During this time, the lies we’re tempted to believe about our loneliness can be especially crippling, oftentimes preventing us from reaching out and forming the connections we so deeply desire.
Here are some lies we can watch out for: