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God Used a Crisis to Strengthen My Faith
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I was exposed to both Christianity and Buddhism as a child. I was 10 when I came to develop a relationship with God. But this was a fearful secret that I hid from my father for years.
What to Do When Family Holidays Don’t Go the Way We Expect
Manage my expectations, manage my life.
Holding things a little more loosely, a little more lovingly, unquestionably makes for much happier holidays.
But just because we don't want to have expectations doesn't mean we don't actually have them.
When Your Christian Family Is Always Fighting
Even though my parents had supposedly dedicated our family to the Lord, sometimes it felt like we weren’t that different from non-Christian families; in fact, it seemed like we were worse off.
What Makes Family
Family, family, family.
Some of us may feel a surge of warmth thinking about family. Others may heave a heavy sigh.
5 Ways I Learned to Love My Dysfunctional Family
My family has always been what some might describe as ‘textbook Christian’: We go to church every Sunday, and attend fellowships and retreats. We read the Bible, join Bible study groups, and hold Bible study sessions at home. We believe that a family that prays together stays together.
And yet, it has always been painful for me to see how much conflict and tension we have in our home.
When Race and Faith Collide: Woes of Dating Someone From a Different Race
The door slammed. Right in my face. I have never had someone do that to me before; this was the stuff of Hollywood dramas, but this drama was only just beginning.
That was the response I encountered when my father asked me point-blank if I was seeing Pravin*. It marked the start of a downward spiral in my relationship with my father, two years of what my father called the “dark night of his soul”.
Confronting Conflict the Healthy Way
Imagine a life devoid of conflict, disagreements, and hurts. And even if any one of those arose, we can happily shake on it, and agree to disagree. How happy and enjoyable our lives will be!
Unfortunately, because we’re all sinful beings and we live in a broken world, conflicts do and will arise in our everyday lives.
The ABCs of family
Picture-perfect families are the realm of social media posts. In reality, all families are flawed, and there’s nothing like being cooped up in close quarters with them 24/7 to magnify and highlight our quirks as tempers flare and feathers are ruffled.
Learning to Love in a Toxic Relationship
It was my worst nightmare. The phone call that my mom was in jail and I needed to bail her out.
I knew she wasn’t completely innocent. On the ride home, the jabs started right away. I didn’t know how to love my mother, much less lovingly support her as I bailed her out of jail and brought her home to live with me.