When Pursuing My Spiritual Gift Became My Idol
I used to wonder what my spiritual gift was. I thought it was ushering because someone suggested I help out as an usher.
Then one day, our pastor showed us a movie titled War Room. The main character was a faithful and God-loving woman who wrote down her prayers in a prayer closet and prayed about them daily. I was impressed by her faithfulness and started to question my own prayer life. As I was moved to pray more often, I started journaling my thoughts and prayers so that I could remember them and see how God has worked in my life. From there, it was not long before I started writing articles.
Having my articles published felt like an affirmation that I was on the right track with God. I have also received praise and encouragement from friends and others who read my articles. I felt good, special, and loved by God. I thanked God for giving me the gift of writing.
But God knew what was going on in secret in my heart, and He graciously showed me one day. I was reading a Christian article online, and it had over 1,000 “likes”. My articles were always way below this figure. I started envying the writer of this article. I wished I had her gift. I wished that my articles could garner as many “likes” as hers. I wished my articles could be more popular.
I felt discontented and unhappy. That was when the Lord led me to Romans 12:15, “Rejoice with those who rejoice.” Can I truly rejoice with this writer in her success? Can I rejoice in the fact that God had chosen to use her to spread His Word—in what seemed to be a more effective way than how He used me? Can I truly rejoice even if my writings go unnoticed or unrecognized? Where is the source of my joy?
The Bible warns again and again not to go chasing after idols. While I did not worship an actual idol, I had prided myself on the success of my writings—and it had become my idol. It was a terrible mistake to place my joy in such lesser things of the temporal world, instead of taking joy in the eternal and unshakeable glory of God.
God showed me how weak my flesh was and how my heart was prone to wander from what truly matters. Worldly measures of success had caused my pride to soar, and I was easily envious of the success of others. I had forgotten that I could do nothing apart from God (John 15:5). God is the true source of joy (Psalm 16:11), and He warns us away from idols so that we can enjoy the fullness of joy that only He can provide.
Loving my spiritual gift more than the Giver would not bring me any good. The purpose of my spiritual gift is to glorify God and to help others—myself included—discover the true joy of knowing Him. God has entrusted this gift to me. If I do not steward it well, I would render myself ineffective for God’s call for me.
I repented and asked God to give me a desire to please and pursue Him above all, and that I would never lose sight of Him. I prayed that my source of joy would flow only from Him as I fix my eyes on Him.
I now ask myself the following questions as I continue writing and using the gift God has given me:
- Would I still find joy in the Lord even if one day I am no longer an effective writer?
- Would I still worship Him even if He takes my gift away?
- Is my identity rooted in Christ or my success?
- Can I rejoice with those who are more successful?
Constantly asking myself these questions reminds me to strive for holiness, and guards my heart from temptation and ungodly desires as I try to steward my gift well. My fleshly desire is to glorify myself. But I have learned the importance of submitting my thoughts to the Lord and asking God to search my heart (Psalm 139:23-24).
I ask that the meditations of my heart would be pleasing to His sight (Psalm 19:14). I remind myself to give thanks and glory to Him: not only is my gift from Him, but He is the giver of true joy. After all, how can personal gains or glory compare to the rewards He has prepared for us in heaven, on that day when we finally get to see Him face to face?
Agnes, thank you for this. I can totally relate to this as a writer and you remind me to keep my eyes on Jesus, and that my joy is in Him.
Thank you for writing. Thank you for sharing these questions that you asked yourself in reflection. This is my first time visiting this site and I hope to find some solace in personal experiences. I read one before this and now yours. I can really relate to these questions but not in firm thoughts you have in Christ. I am not new to knowing Christ but I have not allowed myself to get to know Him more. Can I rejoice with those who rejoice? I should and I want to. I want to be forgiving to others and to myself. To be kinder to myself and not seeing this as a self pity act. I don’t know why I share so much in this comment section. I guess your words really have touched my heart.
Wherever you are, continue writing and sharing for you never know who will read it and find solace in it.
I’ve been wrestling with this and the gift God has given me as a dancer. I’m not sure how to actively participate in using this gift without worldly measures of success getting to my head. This is a great article!